Built by Jordan Miller · BreatheHeavy
A modern gay meetup app for singles, couples, and thirds.
It's a match
Tap a profile to look inside
Browse singles and couples near you.Message anyone that catches your eye. Once they accept, the chat opens. Couples share one profile with two logins, so you can message as a group, or one on one.
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No unsolicited pics or videos
Watch how it works
Someone can message you, but a chat, and any photo or video, only opens once you accept. Single or couple, the rule's the same.
Connect however you want
Single and single
A private one on one
Single and a couple
Talk to one of them, or both
Couple and couple
Match up and chat as a group
Your message waits in their requests until they accept.
Who you bring in after that is up to you.
Grid & map
See who's near you.
A clean grid of real people around you, singles and couples both. Tap over to the map to see who's nearby, with your location always kept approximate, and share a live pin once you're talking that clears itself after an hour. Message who you want; a chat opens once they accept.
Tap to switch views
Looking now
Matched ✓
Know before you message
Completed profiles.
Not just a grid pic. Stats, health, what you can host, what you're into, who's your type, so reaching out actually means something.
Noah
1.5 mi · 5'10"
Greg & Jayden
6.3 mi · Hosting
Tap a card to open the full profile
Live status
Tell your city you're around.
Tap a status and it shows on your tile for a few hours, then clears itself.
No stale “online 3 days ago.”
In every chat
It's not just a text box.
Once you're talking, you have real ways to move it forward. Send a voice note, share a photo or video that's gone after one look, open a private album, or pick a time and place.
Tap to play
Voice notes
Say it instead of typing it. Set it to disappear after a listen, or in an hour.
Photos and videos
Send a photo or a video they can open once, or that clears itself on a timer.
Tap to open
Private albums
Keep an album of your own, or build one with your partner. Share access to who you choose, and set it to expire.
Plan the night
Skip the back and forth. Pick a time and a place in a couple of taps.
These are live. Go ahead and tap around.
Yours, and only yours
Private and secure.
Discretion is the whole point. Your profile never appears on the open web, and nothing you share is ever posted for the world to see. Your privacy is the priority, from the moment you sign up.
Profiles aren’t searchable or indexed by Google. Members see you; the internet doesn’t.
Photos, videos, and voice notes live in private storage and open only for the person you send them to. Send one that’s gone after a single look, or lock media in a private album.
A chat only opens when you accept a request, your location is always kept approximate, and you decide who you bring in.
Built for couples
One profile, your own conversations.
You and your partner share a single profile with two logins, so people meet you as a couple. From there you can message as a group, or one on one. You set the rules, not the app.
Tap to open the full profile
Built for singles, too
Flying solo? ssslither is for you, too.
One profile, one login, no plus-one required. Message a single or a couple.
Robbie
2 mi · Vers
One profile · open to everyone
Opening city by city
Unlock your city.
A city opens once enough founding members sign up, and the founding wave locks in 3 months of ssslither+, free. Get in early, then pull your friends in to push it over the line.
Don't see your city? Pre-register and add it →