What it means to be part of this community.
By joining, you agree to a few simple things:
Be who you say you are
Real photos, real age, real you. No catfishing, no bait-and-switch.
Consent is everything
Accepting a message request is an invitation to talk, not a yes to anything else. Take “no” for an answer the first time, and never send explicit photos to someone who hasn’t asked for them.
Singles and couples are equal
No one here is a “unicorn” to be hunted. Treat everyone as a person, whether they arrive solo or as a pair.
If you’re a couple, both of you are real
Both partners show up honestly and act for themselves. Meeting a couple? Respect that they’re two individuals.
Keep it respectful
No harassment, hate, racism, or body-shaming. Flirt, don’t badger.
Keep public profiles clean
No nudity or sexually explicit photos or video on your public profile. That content gets your account permanently banned. (Private chats between matched adults are your own business.)
18+ only, always
Everyone here is an adult, and so is everyone you talk to. No exceptions.
Nothing involving minors, ever
Any sexual content involving someone under 18 gets the account permanently removed, preserved, and reported to NCMEC and law enforcement. There is no warning and no second chance.
Never share someone else’s nudes
Posting or sending an intimate photo of anyone who didn’t consent to it gets you removed, and may be reported to law enforcement.
What’s shared here stays here
No screenshots, no outing, no sharing anyone’s photos or health status. Discretion is the deal.
Look out for each other
If someone crosses a line, report them. We review every report and act on it.
Break these and you can be suspended or removed. We’d rather have a smaller, better community than a big, messy one.